I Need Emotional Intimacy

Why are so many guys just into looks? I mean I know it's been talked about ad nauseum but I just don't get it. When I was still married I went out with my girlfriends and guys used to pay more attention to me. It was nice, but I felt really bad for the other girls, and besides I was married. Any sincere comments would be appreciated.

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Livingwell · 61-69, M

It’s not so much looks but personality. A big smile, laughter, playful gestures. One can be drop dead gorgeous and naked but if they sit there expecting me to entertain them, i’m out of there. I like a fun person that can express themselves and take the lead sometimes.