I Need Emotional Intimacy

Why are so many guys just into looks? I mean I know it's been talked about ad nauseum but I just don't get it. When I was still married I went out with my girlfriends and guys used to pay more attention to me. It was nice, but I felt really bad for the other girls, and besides I was married. Any sincere comments would be appreciated.

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HikingMan · 51-55, M

I believe most men are initially basing thoughts and attractions from looks. Though I also believe that is short lived and if there's nothing outstanding behind the pretty facade then it soon ends afterwards.

I guess we're always trying to find that beautiful, sexy, lady, that has a personality too.

They're amazingly much harder to find than we tend to anticipate.

As an aside, I've had great sex with gorgeous women that I couldn't stand personally beyond their natural beauty and sexiness.

irishmolly72 · 56-60, F

@HikingMan ...and did that great sex fulfill you?

HikingMan · 51-55, M

Not enough, in the end, to overlook the incompatibility