I Need Emotional Intimacy

Why are so many guys just into looks? I mean I know it's been talked about ad nauseum but I just don't get it. When I was still married I went out with my girlfriends and guys used to pay more attention to me. It was nice, but I felt really bad for the other girls, and besides I was married. Any sincere comments would be appreciated.

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Uncfred · 61-69, M

The attraction for a male is different to the attraction for a female, like in nature, there are certain elements of beauty in the female form that the male does not posses. Then of course there are different grades of beauty, visible only to the observer, and you probably have a different grade of beauty. As mentioned by OWTFWN, the nude is a good example of that beauty, being female.

irishmolly72 · 56-60, F

@Uncfred: Thanks for that thoughtful response. :)