ElusiveReclusive · F
Dude... why don't the two of you go your seperate ways and stop delaying this silly painful process? I don't understand ex bfs to be honest, always trying to get back in contact, I honestly think it's so they can have one last chance to try and get me into bed. If we're realistic. Fuck! That! Shit!
Daniel1120 · 26-30, M
I mean honestly this was my last ditch effort to try to get her back. No contact then talk to her. My timing was good cuz she found out her new guy cheated on her a week ago and then been together for like 3 weeks. But she wants to be mad that I stopped talking to her. Honestly I might be done. It sucks for her cuz I'm literally the only guy she's ever dated that didn't (and wouldn't) cheat on her. She tends to have an awful choice in guys.
ElusiveReclusive · F
@Daniel1120: oh right so you're hoping to get a relationship going again? Why don't you just be honest? Say "look, the reason I stopped contact was because it was hard for me, I wanted to respect you enough to give you the space you needed" then just ask to hang out
Daniel1120 · 26-30, M
@ElusiveReclusive: well I was gonna ask her out to lunch sometime this weekend but she just got angry out no where and did that. I mean I don't really get it, just before that we were talking on the phone and talking and laughing for like a good 20-30 minutes. She ended up getting quiet then said something and hung up then said that.
LovelyGorilla · 26-30, F
No....Its just Unnecessarily complicated
Daniel1120 · 26-30, M
I mean I just don't get it. Like I'm not gonna be her friend while I'm still hurting and she's already with someone else and technically I was there for her.
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Yeah sounds sour/manipulative. Block the number, block the social media accounts and just get on with life. Gotta cut those people out straight away.
bijouxbroussard · F
This is why a clean break is often best. It gets really complicated otherwise.