uncalled4 · 56-60, M
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She sounds like a textbook narcissist who feeds on your attention and praise like a vampire. What's more, those people think that they are ENTITLED to that, and pretty much everything else. They're essentially children.
There will probably be pushback, but you really don't need these assholes in your life. They're broken, and you can't help them. That's not your fault.
Good luck.
She sounds like a textbook narcissist who feeds on your attention and praise like a vampire. What's more, those people think that they are ENTITLED to that, and pretty much everything else. They're essentially children.
There will probably be pushback, but you really don't need these assholes in your life. They're broken, and you can't help them. That's not your fault.
Good luck.
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MelanieUK · 22-25, F
@Lexiitexii wow and you still have her as a friend that is a quick into touch ex-friend to me,
@Lexiitexii Just cut her off entirely and be done with it as an issue..
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
@Lexiitexii I am sorry to know you were a violent crime victim. And your "friend" befriended your attacker?!!?! You can definitely do without this person in your life! I'd say it's time to fire her as a friend; just tell her this is just not working out for you.
StevenIzzi · M
Ask her if you can help her with her depression, if she says that she does not have depression then i would say "Oh, I am sorry, I assumed because you are always talking about how your life is so great and having to share when you work on your eyebrows that it was a cry for help to mask a deep seeded depressive lifestyle"....THEN SAY THIS.
"I will make sure that the others are aware that it is not depression as we were concerned and even discussed an intervention"
"I will make sure that the others are aware that it is not depression as we were concerned and even discussed an intervention"
EskiMegan · 36-40, F
Both of you aren't friends with each other. If you were her real friend you wouldn't be "so tired of this girl" and she wouldn't try to snag every guy that crosses your path. She sees you as a threat. What you do about her involving herself in your life is up to you, hope you make the right choice and make it plain to her that you don't want her involvement in your life. To me she's like a rapist of sorts, and you're enabling her rationalizing that you're some benevolent creature when really, you're fucking tired of that bitch you clearly don't like.
SW-User
Thats annoying
Lexiitexii · 31-35, F
It sounds good except I don’t know any of her other friends I think she is a narcissist so she only deals with her friends separately and tells things about each one to the other. I think she is grown a**ss Regina George @StevenIzzi
StevenIzzi · M
@Lexiitexii ok then say "I only assumed that because I had a friend that did the same thing and then she ended up taking her life because it was difficult for her to pretend to portray the perfect life when inside she was hurting".
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
You might be surprised if you read this and apply it to her. Or not.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder
Your friend has some kind of personality disorder..
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Your best line of defence is just saying as it is. Youre experiencing her recent messages to you as bragging and shallow, please fix.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Being a doormat or not is up to you. You are not being "nice" by not being honest you are being a coward. Afraid of her wrath or what she might do or of being lonely without her.
Make good choices. Life is short don't deliberately allow in bullshit or bullshit people.
Make good choices. Life is short don't deliberately allow in bullshit or bullshit people.