It isn't. People just are not willing to dedicate themselves to changing for a partner they're committed to

They'd rather leave when things go bad and just find someone new and give them the cupcake face and just be nice until things go wrong and then ya leave again cuz you STILL don't wanna change etc (the loop is clear)

That's why monogamy is out of the current relationship meta .-.

It seems like that's how it is nowadays. Almost everyone cheats or they have open relationships. Marriage doesn't mean the same as it did once. I agree with you. There's only room for one man in my life with me. And I aint sharing either.

That’s a fine way of thinking, so you stick to your guns, honey. You don’t have to follow these twisted trends if you don’t want to, for that’s all it is anyway. Be yourself.. And if anyone tries to convince you to adhere to this abnormal “New World” bullshit? You can show them exactly where to place a kiss if they’re so fucking inclined 😏

They wanna have their cake and eat it to.

They are simply trying to justify their own opinions

the issue isn't really about monogamy vs polygamy; the real problem with society is many people can't even overcome petty jealousy/greed/animosity, etc. in a single relationship, let alone multiple ones... those are the things that are "unhealthy", regardless of relationship status

A lot of people in polyamorous relationships are actually very controlling, the type that tell their partners: "it's okay for me to sleep with whoever, but you can only sleep with who I say you can!".

I'm of the mind that if you want to sleep around and date multiple people, then just don't start a committed relationship in the first place. But so many people would rather have their cake and eat it than think beyond themselves.

It's just one of those silly ideas.

There's nothing wrong with monogamy. People get all sorts of ideas.

Crap

They’re actually trying to justify why they’re unable to be faithful to one partner. If they didn’t feel a certain amount of guilt, they wouldn’t need to do that.