Meeting someone at a bar is a no-go.

It totally depends on the mood of the guy. If he has just came to drink and you took him by surprise he would be happy and joyful but first of all will take time to understand what is happening around him.

The second case where the guy hits a bar with an intention to get some girl. He would not be interested in someone who is ruining his lookout fun.

The third guy who is also there to with the intention to get some girl but he has lately been busy in his activities and his past 1 year is dry without girl, he would readily be turned on.


The fourth guy is James Bond who is sitting at the bar with some motive and he would take your attention just to use you as a dupe or a tool to get himself covered up.


The fifth guy....

Who said she was attractive tho? Not everyone is into the same things.. And yes sometimes being pursued is a total turnoff

Hot chicks in bars dont have to approach a guy. and never do.

When she approaches him she becomes a one and done

It's 2019, women are free to initiate as often as men are, as long as a conversation happens, then who knows where it will go, romance follows the heart.👍💕🤗

Not in my case. I'd love that an attractive woman singled me out for conversation. I think "the chase" is overrated.

never have, never will, hook up with a woman i meet in a bar.

but in general-- sure. why not?

No absolutely not. There is nothing wrong with a woman starting a conversation. I would welcome that.

I don't have these issues anymore. Gave up on dating long ago. I love spending money on just myself.

No, is there any reason you would it assume it would if you initiated conversation?

No but it's a unique approach to the old fashioned way.

I think its a mans job to confront a lady.....but interesting topic

Not at all. That's actually pretty refreshing.

An attractive woman never speaks to me in person

I would be very flattered.

Absolutely not

I'd be flattered!

I don't think so.

No not really

That's silly