one has to understand the subject at hand in order to find it, recognize it.

It's hard to find a loyal person at any age. Period

It's not.

Define 'loyal' first? And since you are a couple (or listed as such) are you asking about a loyal third, or.. ?

because loyalty comes from love.. real love,, a bonding,, not just sex and a few dates.
of you want a quality woman... you must act the quality man
and your age? in our time the media has so comodified sexuality to the point where young men and women believe they are supposed to play a wide field,, and make themselves available