SpaceAce · 31-35, M
Lol, love is something chemicals in your head tell you about.
GohantheThird · M
Depends on how it ended.
If it ended on good terms, then yes. Sometimes you get back together, which is nice. Othertimes you don't, and you move on. The love is still there, but it changes to something less...attached, shall we say...
If it ended on bad terms, then you really can't. At the end of a relationship I feel that people can really be at their worst since they put so much effort into trying to salvage the relationship. I get so exhausted that she just brings out the worst in me, so I generally ghost her just to rid myself of anxiety. She'll follow me around a bit to say "Hey, I still care", but I never speak to her again. I just can't, ya know?
If it ended on good terms, then yes. Sometimes you get back together, which is nice. Othertimes you don't, and you move on. The love is still there, but it changes to something less...attached, shall we say...
If it ended on bad terms, then you really can't. At the end of a relationship I feel that people can really be at their worst since they put so much effort into trying to salvage the relationship. I get so exhausted that she just brings out the worst in me, so I generally ghost her just to rid myself of anxiety. She'll follow me around a bit to say "Hey, I still care", but I never speak to her again. I just can't, ya know?
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I don't think i can subject myself to that torture
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Winenot · 51-55, F
@SW-User That’s sweet, But I imagine it’s difficult.
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CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F
I can not. I won't even try
Cowboybob · M
Yeah. Why not? Seems a shame to throw away all those memories!

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@Cowboybob what about when all the memories were lies or bad?
Cowboybob · M
@SW-User well then we probably aren’t still friends
Smokey · 46-50, M
No matter what I'll always care, but common banter wouldn't be possible

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I'm struggling with that right now....

SW-User
It would be difficult, but I think I could if I was able to set firm boundaries.
Madelenie · 26-30, F
@SW-User What would firm boundaries be?

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Nothing intimate or physical with them and I wouldn't want to hear about their sex/love life or talk to them about mine.

SW-User
Nope. You're only hurting yourself if you do that. Oops shit I'm talking to myself again 😓
Sacron22 · 56-60, M
No. I should be stronger than that. But it hasn't worked in the past.
Bluesky53 · 61-69, M
it would be hard,it would take time,
SerenitiesScars · 36-40, M
Tried, didn't work..
Shawnkautzman1 · 51-55, M
That would be hard.
robbie2499 · 61-69, F
No way no how.
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SW-User
No.

SW-User
No.
Winenot · 51-55, F
No.
bijouxbroussard · F
Only from a distance.

SW-User
Probably not. I'd fuck it up.