Simpleminded777 · 36-40, M
Yes coz ladies first.
Many guys are as afraid of asking you out as you are of asking them. There are those of us too, who are completely unaware that someone likes us (I think clueless is the word :)). So, don't take the chance on missing out, if you really want to go out with the guy, then ask. You can make it cute, something like what happened to me one time. She came up to me where we couldn't be overheard and with her cutest smile, said "If I were you, I'd ask me out." It worked, I did, and we had a marvelous time!
Paloma · 26-30, F
@frequentlyme That's cute!
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SW-User
They like it actually.
Yes sometimes guys are afraid of rejection

SW-User
If you really really want him..

SW-User
I don't mind it. There are people who find it unbecoming of a man, but my manhood rests in other aspects of my conduct, not in taking the lead in this instance.
Men generally have to put themselves out there a lot. Having the girl take some stress off can be really nice.
Men generally have to put themselves out there a lot. Having the girl take some stress off can be really nice.

SW-User
it's better than waiting for something that may never come
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
It's perfectly okay go for it.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
as ok as anything else.
LyricalOne · F
Erm.... yeah.
Terrance · 41-45, M
Of course it is
wetncthru · F
If permissible within the bounds of the culture = why not? Howsosevers, I suggest refraining so to do in Saudi Arabia.
DreamyCrush · F
I tried that after he indicated his interest, but clearly this guy was not THAT interested because he flaked on me ... twice.
Resoner · 31-35, M
Absolutely, I encourage you to!
detrimentalfallacy · 26-30, F
Last time I did it, the guy thought I was trying to get the pipe.
Paloma · 26-30, F
@detrimentalfallacy The pipe?
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erosme · 46-50, M
Why not, kind l like it.
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
its happend before
retrowaves · 31-35, F
it depends
Pdad49 · M
Yes it is!
Lol

SW-User
Yes

SW-User
yep yep.
progeo · 61-69, M
Yes!!! What a compliment to the guy. If he says no silly boy I'm still here lol lol xxx
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
It wouldn't bother me if a girl asked me out
Chickie · F
Is it but I hate making first moves 😆
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
obviously it is not okay at all.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@MartinTheFirst sarcasm I assume?
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@th3r0n not at all
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@MartinTheFirst if you’re not under deep cover of sarcasm, what are your reasons? I would find that very pleasant.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
Very much so, women can sometimes be cruel instead of understanding when we ask (probably because some guys are such jerks) and we often don’t when we would like to because of it. When a girl offers, it’s a self esteem boost at the least, and if we like her it’s like winning a lottery you didn’t enter.