How to end a relationship? I've been thinking about ending my 1-year relationship for a few...

MikeindropD · 36-40, M

Have the conversation. Hear him out and see where he is coming from. If he feels you two should ends things as well, then agree and let it be a mutual break up. If he wants to try and save the relationshup, but your still not feeling it...well I'm sure you know what to do lol.

SW-User

Who ends it matters little. You don't sound happy, so as long as it ends that is good

Flutterby

Why can't it be considered a mutual decision?
If you both want the same thing, decide to end it together.

FORMERLYbatovn · 61-69, M

let him speak his piece and then see where the conversation goes............good luck

Dolimyte · 41-45, M

Why do you want to be the one to end it? As long as its over, who cares? Its not like him dumping you will hurt your feelings

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

If he ends it tell him you were thinking the same thing for long while, and tell him you're glad to end it on friendly terms.

SW-User

He might be fixing to propose

Fredbloggs · 31-35, M

Why worry. You get the chance to play the victim and he will be none the wiser

theentertainer · 36-40, F

Dolimyte · 31-35, M
Why do you want to be the one to end it? As long as its over, who cares? Its not like him dumping you will hurt your feelings

The thing is ... I feel like him dumping me is really bad for my self-esteem. I want to end the relationship because it's lacking passion ... him ending it will (in my irrational mind) confirm that he's not attracted to me.

greenmountaingal · 80-89, F

Tell him you need to see him immediately. Then tell him in a few clear words that it's over. Let him respond with whatever he has to say. Then day "Goodbye."

Flutterby

So? What happened with the talk?

Dolimyte · 41-45, M

It would be good if you could think of it in terms of the chemistry not being right instead of it being about you personally. If not, dump his ass first.