Zoinks - that's because you're dealing with women who live in a perpetual state of confusion, don't understand that words are meant to be taken at face value because females themselves have 20 meanings at LEAST for every dictionary word, where as men mainly have one or two depending on usage.

I've seen questions where a female asks an online community "This guy tells me I'm gorgeous and that he'd love to date me. He keeps complimenting me and saying how sexy I am, how beautiful, how sweet.. what does that mean.. does he want to date me or is he playing games or does it mean nothing".. or something to that effect.

Even several other females were saying "Wtf is wrong with you, how can you be THAT stupid, of course he likes you".

But girls still ask these no brainer questions because women are always adding secret or hidden meanings to words, and because when girls communicate to each other, it's done through these subtle word games, hints, circular thinking and "guess the real meaning of what I'm saying" games too.. so of course they think men communicate in this same INSANE, stupid, backwards, defective and stupidest of all ways of talking.