danimal3 - because if you overdo it, it becomes suffocating. It takes away your independence of her and becomes a codependence kind of relationship. Now some women could appreciate this and return it too, but to me it feels suffocating. I want to be loved passionately too, but if he loses himself in the process, then I will find this suffocating.

That can become very suffocating if you don't give it a balance.