We are complex crearures lol. Idk honestly. I feel like we fear that if we are super upfront about things we will come off as demanding or bitchy. Also (as crazy as this is) we feel so strongly about things that we feel it should be common knowledge to you guys and you should just know. As a self aware female I can say that there is absolutely no logic behind it but its something we just cant help. When emotions are high, we often think with our feelngs, not our brains