Why do you think, when it comes to sexuality, there are more submissive people than dominant ?

@EnigmaticGeek had to think on that a moment... Mentally - yes... I'd have to agree... It's a lot of pressure and thinking on Ur feet to be a Dom.
But then, it takes a lot of courage to be submissive 🤷‍♀️

@BoobooSnafu True, but courage is something you have, not something you do.

@EnigmaticGeek Hmmmmm..... I'd have to disagree on that.

Sometimes - it's nothing but sheer concentration to dedication that holds one to courage.

@BoobooSnafu Like one is psyching one's self into being courageous--or not paying any attention to fears?

@EnigmaticGeek not paying attention fears?
Errrrr.... More like.... feeling them... But not letting them take over - looking past them to trust.
Does that make sense?

@BoobooSnafu I think so. Will ponder that...

@EnigmaticGeek actually had this in the back of my mind - and other thoughts came, like - courage is different for everybody.
Courage is easy if youre ignorant of what there is to fear. Courage is also easy if you have little to fear.
Courage can happen to different degrees and only surface under the right conditions.
It's like getting in the zone - sometimes it only takes a phrase to get you there - or a certain touch to take you back.
Some think they have it - even lots of it.
But yoy have to be afraid first - to find courage.