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Why do you think, when it comes to sexuality, there are more submissive people than dominant ?

Especially when so many online are pushy,arrogant and opionated ignorami?

Aren't submissives usually more amicable by nature?
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I thought it was the other way around lol. I've met more dominant people on this site than submissive people
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[@4406,EnigmaticGeek] By 30-40 something years.
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
[@4536,Alex1610] I thought you'd already had a BF close to my age?
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[@4406,EnigmaticGeek] Nope lol
PerthSurfer · 46-50, M
I had a neighbour in Perth who was an Escort, as in a high priced one. She told me that most of her clients were men in powerful positions like CEO's, politicians etc and they never wanted straight sex, but wanted to be tied up and dominated and spanked etc. She said it was weird but the easiest money she made. Maybe those guys get so tired of dominating everyone under them at work, they need a dose of it themselves when it comes to naughty time?
[@557074,PerthSurfer] well - I can see how icecream cpuld go down real.nice with that 😁
PerthSurfer · 46-50, M
[@710185,BoobooSnafu] lol i'm imagining that you'd wear the ice cream while she's using her ... um whippy thing 🥴
[@557074,PerthSurfer] Sugah - I'm already in Tassie!!!
Now Ur just being cruel 🤣
ShaythePanTransMan · 18-21, T
It is true. I love being a dom in a sea of submissives I get treated like a king
ShaythePanTransMan · 18-21, T
[@710185,BoobooSnafu] I guess you're right.
Bad sex isn't fun, but then again I've never really had that.
You're right.
[@961187,ShaythePanTransMan] hopefully - you never will.🤗
ShaythePanTransMan · 18-21, T
[@710185,BoobooSnafu] yeahhh hopefully. have you?
[@105699,JohnOlinger] err...

Lemme think -

Hmmmm🤔... Every canuk I ever met was a real dude!

...😒..but every politician I ever met was a kniving bastard...

So.... Nah - I'm calling a bye on this one... He's wrecking the awesome image I have of Canadians by being a politician...

Paradoxial conditions require forfeiture of fuckability. 😜
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
It takes less effort to be submissive, both mentally and physically.
[@4406,EnigmaticGeek] not paying attention fears?
Errrrr.... More like.... feeling them... But not letting them take over - looking past them to trust.
Does that make sense?
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
[@710185,BoobooSnafu] I think so. Will ponder that...
[@4406,EnigmaticGeek] actually had this in the back of my mind - and other thoughts came, like - courage is different for everybody.
Courage is easy if youre ignorant of what there is to fear. Courage is also easy if you have little to fear.
Courage can happen to different degrees and only surface under the right conditions.
It's like getting in the zone - sometimes it only takes a phrase to get you there - or a certain touch to take you back.
Some think they have it - even lots of it.
But yoy have to be afraid first - to find courage.
Blaaah · 26-30, F
I really believe it’s true that people who are dominant in everyday life, are likely to be submissive in their sex-lives, and vise versa. :)
ShaythePanTransMan · 18-21, T
[@341839,Fable] it can be true I'm submissive in every day life XD
JohnnyO · 36-40, M
@BoobooSnafu So What Do You Think Of Justin Trudeau & Would You Do Him
[@105699,JohnOlinger] he's a Canadian politician right? 🤔
JohnnyO · 36-40, M
[@710185,BoobooSnafu] Yes
QuixoticSoul · 36-40, M
This seems like several totally separate questions.
[@580625,QuixoticSoul] well, yes it is.

Thing is - I'm a little impulsive, and write how I talk, and think.

And to be honest, it's rather hot here today - and I'm not a hot weather person.

So you're perfectly right for pointing out the plurality of my post.

Hmmmm.... Maybe I'm just a lazy poster and shove as much asi can into one, you know - like a Sandwich 😁
[@580625,QuixoticSoul] plus, I can only make guesstamations from what I know, seen, read and experienced.... Which by any perspective is trivial compared to the vast spectrum of this corner of BSDM.

So... I really could just be an assumptive idiot - whose to know? 😏🤷‍♀️

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