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I am a virgin, and idk how to do it. I am stressed about getting off too soon, please help me to last long in bed, please???

I have one week before sex.
likesnatural · 70-79, M
Most men do cum quickly the first time. Don't sweat it. Just continue to pleasure her, and concentrate on her. You will probably get hard again and last loner then.
Gone12345 · 41-45, M
[@867820,likesnatural] true. I still do sometimes
Diamonddog · 26-30, M
haha. you might even get nerves and struggle to finish tbh.
You can always keep going anyway if you're worried about it, but do a lot of foreplay beforehand so even if you do finish quick you'll know she enjoyed it/build up makes it more enjoyable anyway.

just don't stress about it
Diamonddog · 26-30, M
[@4395,wallflowerguy] I just had confidence in myself when i did it, I was good at foreplay and could last long (too long tbh which is actually annoying for women) but obviously terrible at sex for the first couple times as you need to get the rhythm down.

But yeah you'll have some nerves but just enjoy it and live in the moment, it's not a big deal once you've got it out your system.
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
[@877165,Chaoticneutral] How doni pleasure her and last long?
Diamonddog · 26-30, M
[@4395,wallflowerguy] You'll work it out tbh. If you want some advice start slow with foreplay/tease her and build it up over time so she's really excited and then when you get to it it'll feel better for her.

Just feel her out with the sex part, you'll get an idea of what feels good, I'd just take it easy. Once you get a ryhthm down the trick is being consistent. Just have fun though.
Do you mb? If so do you ever edge? Using those techniques while having sex will help you last longer. Thrusting hard and fast will bring on the urge to ejaculate. When you feel that back off a little, focus on something else. A guy could probably explain it better.
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
[@600561,midnightrose] This is the first practical advice i got in this question...
[@4395,wallflowerguy] I hope it helps you have a good first experience.
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
[@600561,midnightrose] Thanks a lot mam..😵
Is it with someone you care about?

And no, this is not me being judged, if it is with someone you care about then relax and enjoy the experience, they will not care.
if it is with someone you don't then it doesn't matter
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
[@406205,Babylon] Idk...i care about her..she likes me too, but that's why I don't wanna ruin her's.
[@4395,wallflowerguy] relax, this is then happening because you both want it. You both will improve.
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
[@406205,Babylon] Yea..still..i need something to work on. Any exercises, etc.
LittleGuy662 · 100+, M
Don't quit out after the first time, go to eating her out until your shit get hard again lol the second time you'll last longer lol
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
[@772062,JackTheTripper] But any tips to not cum fast the first time.?
LittleGuy662 · 100+, M
[@4395,wallflowerguy] I'd just go with the ride man lol
Phillyphan78 · 41-45, F
Thinking about it will only stress you more. Just relax, have fun and enjoy giving and receiving pleasure with your partner.
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
[@892567,Phillyphan78] It's the first time, mam. 😑😑😑 Naturally nervous 😣
Sroonaka616 · 26-30, M
Just relax and have fun. There again I have never been with a lady.
Gone12345 · 41-45, M
Masturbate before hand and if you go finish quick go for a second round. It happens to the best of us especially first time. Don’t stress and enjoy it.
grayhalo · 41-45, M
You could try taking care of yourself before meeting whoever it is you are going to loose your virginity to. If you can't do that, foreplay and oral are great ways to make the sex last a little before the main event so to speak. Just relax and take whatever happens as it comes. No pun intended. Besides, if you get off relatively quickly, just do other things until you are hard again and go for it a second time.
No one knows how their first time. Just jerk off before and have fun
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Think about your dog while having sex. 🤭
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
[@322117,Zonuss] Noo..please man..need help. ☹️
Geno1996 · 26-30, M
I'm a virgin too. Most likely will always be.
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
How to then pleasure her intensely?

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