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Have you ever met a man that isn’t a family man because of his messed up mother?

I can’t belive I have met three. I’m messed up or are all those mothers really a mess? And is there something about me that is drawn to these men or is it just very common for men to have weird moms?
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Yeah I’ve noticed that pattern. Even I’m messed up in some ways bc of my mother but I’ve come a long way to change myself
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SweetMae · 70-79, F
Yes, I have. We are drawn to what we know. It feels comfortable and safe for a while.
Mindful · 56-60, F
@SweetMae but my father and mother were wonderful and amazing, how can I be drawn to what I know?
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Mindful It was just a general statement. I don't know your specific situation.
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Everyone is messed up. It's the degree of it that you're talking about. I'm sure there are a lot of them. I don't hang around long enough when I see too much unevenness in someone's behavior. I'd rather be alone, and make the choice of a booty call when needed.
Fernie · F
@SW-User Wise Woman!!!
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Mindful · 56-60, F
@PainfulTruth should I be worried about your user name in this instance?
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Uh. Every time I look in the mirror. Fortunately despite her special brand of cruelty I'm pretty well adjusted.
Mindful · 56-60, F
@RandomForest how do you know that you’re well adjusted? Now that I think of it, a couple of the women I know are also in relationship with men who had weird moms.
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
They're called psychiatrists... 🤔
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Mindful · 56-60, F
@wildbill83 hmmm
At least they’ve chosen a decent path in life, or so I hope. :-(
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
@Mindful many are more screwed up than their patients/had troubled childhoods; hence the reason they became shrinks...

to try to figure out why....
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i thought i was the only one with mommy issues

 
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