When someone says they love me many say my hair and looks, some say my thinking, few say my feelings, whom do they love when they love me....pls help

People can say love you or hate you,but both are not real. The real love flowers only when you LOVE yourself. Just say gratitude to this nature that created you beautifully and uniquely. People are just seeing you what they are and how they are. But reality is different. All are opinions.