Why am I single?

A question I ask myself constantly... Sometimes I tell myself its of my own choice. Other times I think its because I am unattractive (which I am to some people.) On occasion I think it's because of my peculiar qualities which only tend to come out at the worst possible moments! I don't know. This is honestly more of a rant ( and story limits what I can title things so... ehh) anyway I am home bored after acing an exam so .. this is probable a strange time to have this question stuck in my head. Continue on with your normal points thank you for the time .

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StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

I sometimes struggle with this question too. When I do, I usually end up pointing the finger at my flaws, real or imagined, much like you did. It is not a healthy exercise for me because I don't see myself changing simply in pursuit of a relationship. Maybe some day it will be important enough but it isn't now.

silver1sil · 26-30, F

@StevetheSleeve You shouldn't. changing is only good when done freely and for yourself if one sees the value in changing. otherwise it's likely you will revert back.