Guys: does an enthusiastic date put you off?

You get talking to a girl (maybe for some months) and before you go on a date she shows enthusiasm and even states that she likes you. Does that put you off?

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Thingschange4444 · 56-60, M

No. Although I'm not into hurting people's feelings or being hurt myself. I think honesty is best. If u think it's a real possibility go with it.

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Thingschange4444 · 56-60, M

@Peppa Follow ur gut instinct. 🖒

Peppa · 31-35, F

@Thingschange4444 thanks x

Thingschange4444 · 56-60, M

@Peppa N P. 🙂

firefall · 61-69, M

Lord no! That feels wonderful to me, encouraging. I think men that are put off by that are wanting to play the whole pursuer/pursued thing which bespeaks a very domineering, traditionalist viewpoint that I dont think is going to be agreeable to you, longterm (?)

Peppa · 31-35, F

@firefall you know me so well. 😊

SW-User

No..no.
Its when she says she loves me and starts naming names for our future kids!

Peppa · 31-35, F

@SW-User lool who does that, we're not 5

SW-User

@Peppa im just extremely charming on a date.
Lol
😉

5thApprentice · 31-35, M

Some enthusiasm is better than appearing disinterested I guess? Lol

IAMMONARAHIMI · 36-40, F

it would put me off, enthusiasm is good, to a degree, and I'm a girl

Peppa · 31-35, F

@IAMMONARAHIMI oh dear

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