Guys: does an enthusiastic date put you off?

You get talking to a girl (maybe for some months) and before you go on a date she shows enthusiasm and even states that she likes you. Does that put you off?

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firefall · 61-69, M

Lord no! That feels wonderful to me, encouraging. I think men that are put off by that are wanting to play the whole pursuer/pursued thing which bespeaks a very domineering, traditionalist viewpoint that I dont think is going to be agreeable to you, longterm (?)

Peppa · 31-35, F

@firefall you know me so well. 😊