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Guys: does an enthusiastic date put you off?

You get talking to a girl (maybe for some months) and before you go on a date she shows enthusiasm and even states that she likes you. Does that put you off?
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
No. Although I'm not into hurting people's feelings or being hurt myself. I think honesty is best. If u think it's a real possibility go with it.
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
[@305137,Justlilyg] Follow ur gut instinct. 🖒
Peppa · 31-35, F
[@454974,Perry1968] thanks x
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
[@305137,Justlilyg] N P. 🙂
firefall · 61-69, M
Lord no! That feels wonderful to me, encouraging. I think men that are put off by that are wanting to play the whole pursuer/pursued thing which bespeaks a very domineering, traditionalist viewpoint that I dont think is going to be agreeable to you, longterm (?)
Peppa · 31-35, F
[@1725,firefall] you know me so well. 😊
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Its when she says she loves me and starts naming names for our future kids!
Peppa · 31-35, F
[@581466,JohnnyBlade] lool who does that, we're not 5
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[@305137,Justlilyg] im just extremely charming on a date.
5thApprentice · 26-30, M
Some enthusiasm is better than appearing disinterested I guess? Lol
it would put me off, enthusiasm is good, to a degree, and I'm a girl
Peppa · 31-35, F
[@606329,bird1986] oh dear

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