Always falling for taken men : what's wrong with me?!

When I was actually done with crying over this guy whom cheated on his gf with me (yes, I know) and when I realized that I'm not gonna die over him, I think I am falling for another guy who is in a relationship 😑 I have this guy who keeps asking me out (he's nice and he really likes me) but I don't want to go out with him.
Why do I always seek troubles?! I know I will hurt myself again, why am doing this?! Am I crazy?

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DancingStarGoddess ·

might be a self esteem thing, it might be making you feel good about yourself that, someone who is with someone else seems to be "choosing you over them" so it's gasing you up a little bit. think that could be it? or perhaps it could be that you like the thrill of sneaking around or doing something you shouldn't, but if they are the one to end things and not you, it feels like how dare you, you came to ME? it's understandable in either case and makes sense. maybe have to sit and have a good talk with yourself and think about what makes you do what you do. could get time to get real honest with yourself about who you are.