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I went on a date with a guy and he lied to me and I'm still depressed. My best friend called me out for being weak. Am I?

Okay so about 3 weeks ago I want a date with this really cute guy. I didn't want to ask this because I was too depressed at the time. I thought he was a really great guy and we got to know each other but he end up lying to me and had a girlfriend all this time he was cheating on her. He only wanted to use me as his a second choice and I didn't want to believe it. My best friend was getting irritated with me for crying over him and it seemed like her niceness was about to go away. She scolded at me for being weak and crying over a guy that only wanted to use me to get though this desperate world. She said hostilly, "You're too blind to see what a cheater and a man white he is. You're being very weak! You're a strong woman and you need to get over it, suck it up and get on with your life! Let's go shop." She didn't even give me a hug. My other friend said, "Sometimes you gotta slap a hand rather than hold on to it." What does that mean?! Sorry if it was long. I've only known him for a month and he said he broke up with his ex. I though he was a great guy with a great personality but that was all a lie.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
I wouldn't call you weak. I'd say your energies were misplaced. You should be angry at him but thankful you found out he was a lying cheating scum as soon as you did. Move on with pride in who you are.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
So you were impressed with his looks but not his character?
[@10033,hippyjoe1955] No no! I cater about his personality. I didn't put that on there.
If he said he broke up with her, he broke up with her. Chances are it's a fresh break and he's still attached to her. That or things were moving too fast for him so he brought her up to slow things down. Give him some space and you'll be fine.
[@633460,BeautiyRose96] Did he own up to it, or did you find out through another source? Either way, this guy sounds like a lot of drama.
[@333226,XamadtheFirst] I found out when she came by
[@633460,BeautiyRose96] that's really awful :(
I wish I knew what to say :(
iamnikki · 26-30, F
Why didn't you ask? Most guys, especially ones like him aren't gonna say it out the blue...
iamnikki · 26-30, F
[@633460,BeautiyRose96] so why did you date him [b]knowing[/b] he had a girlfriend🤔
[@467302,iamnikki] I didn't know he had one!!! Honest.
iamnikki · 26-30, F
[@633460,BeautiyRose96] u said you asked him and he said he did.
johnnyq12 · 31-35, M
do what makes you happy and some times the people close too you will not agree but who has to live with it at the end of the day.
[@614543,johnnyq12] Do you think my best friend was being too mean?

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