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Do you have a list of traits that would make up your perfect partner?

Do you ever ask yourself if you are all the things on your list?
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What means 'perfect' ? That's naive. We all have our own imperfections. When you truly love someone, it means also accepting those imperfections. I'd be happy enough if I could find someone who is on the same 'wavelength' (having the same kind of opinions about faith, sexuality and money). According to a scientific research, those three subjects are the most important ones to have in common. secondly, being able to listen to each other and talk about feelings on how you experience each other, and being able to cope with negative criticism in a way like doing anything you can to improve yourself so the relationship will improve as well. Then thirdly, knowing each other BEFORE a relationship begins, and being each other best friends, and not only focus on the falling in love part and the warm fuzzy feelings. It's also about responsibilities, being able to cook for your partner when he or she gets sick. Offering a shoulder to cry on. But also giving each other the space and time to do some me-stuff, that you don't always have to be together 24/7. I don't think it's easy though to create such a list. But this about sums up mine! ;)
ZenKitzune · F
@ItsAllAboutLove agreed, I think people limit themselves a lot by having a set list to start with.