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I Have a Crush

I have crush on this girl name Alejandra she's from Bogotá my question I'm kinda jealous that she has a boyfriend name José he's this Mexican guy. Should I be jealous? I always treat her nice & always help her when she needs it!
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kingofthenorth87 · 36-40, M
"Help her when she needs it" - somebody's being used as a tool...
Mariocrespo8546 · 31-35, M
Well I'm a nice guys! & would never treat her terribly.
kingofthenorth87 · 36-40, M
well... It's not a bad thing to be nice. But you need to understand that many women are very exploitative by nature. They have no qualms about screwing over guys and using them for recourses, favors, support etc.

You should test this woman. Try asking her for help and see how she reacts. If she dismisses you every time you ask for help - than you can be sure she is simply exploiting you.
Mariocrespo8546 · 31-35, M
@kingofthenorth87: I think I know what you mean. Well when she needs me she always message me right way. But I need her she doesn't message me right way. It's like I'm too nice so she use me lot. She tells me that her she told her parents about me. But I'm not sure if that's true. I like her too much. But she doesn't give me enough attention.
kingofthenorth87 · 36-40, M
She knows that you like her... She uses this fact to exploit you. I know it's hard if you have a crush on her, but you can't let yourself be taken advantage of... Try meeting lot's of new girls. It's best in the long term to just tell her that you guys can't be friends anymore because she just uses you. It will hurt like hell in the short term, but long term you will gain self-respect and personal boundaries.
Mariocrespo8546 · 31-35, M
@kingofthenorth87: thank you bud! I need to find a girl that need me. Not that I need her for my happiness. Maybe I can find another girl. & stop talking to her maybe she will understand she loss me. But i know I can find a better girl than her. Do you have Kik I want to show picture of her
kingofthenorth87 · 36-40, M
Don't mention it!

unfortunately I don't have Kik

can't you just post the Picture here?