Please tell me there is a such thing [I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't]

A such thing as love in your 30s after an abusive narcissist. Im not looking right away. But a girl could use some hope cant she?

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FrosinStjarna

Certainly there is. You are still very young. There is room for lots of dreams to come true.

Justgirl · 36-40, F

@FrosinStjarna i sure hope so

FrosinStjarna

Just stay open to possibilities, @Justgirl. A friend of mine is finding her dreams coming true in her 50s. And they are REALLY good dreams.

Justgirl · 36-40, F

@FrosinStjarna thank you for sharing that with me. My plan is to focus on my kids and make sure theyre good, then one day its time for me

FrosinStjarna

@Justgirl I know it's none of my business, but in my experience, it is good for kids to experience their mom being loved. Could you maybe walk and chew gum at the same time?

Justgirl · 36-40, F

@FrosinStjarna I love this. I would love that. I. Kind of scared though, incase I pick the wrong one again and they have to witness it. I suppose I could date until Im sure and before bringing him around. I just want to do right for them

FrosinStjarna

You sound like someone I know well, @Justgirl. It worked out for her. You've learned a lot. No need to be scared. Just never settle.

Justgirl · 36-40, F

@FrosinStjarna Thank you. I will definitely try not to