@CurseYCure thank you for sharing. Im so sorry for your loss. I. Thankful that you got to experience those 7 years

@Justgirl thank you :) and I’m well settled in, it’s no worry

@CurseYCure thats good

@Justgirl no worries, I've faith in you and when in doubt focus on yourself.
Take each day as it's own blessings and try your best to kick ass. The right person will notice and want to find a way

Just remember to breathe in the good and let go of all the bad that intoxicated your life in any point you're future is never bound by the past

@SirDurpsAlot I like your outlook and wisdom. It sounds like advice I could give others but not myself. Thank you

@Justgirl you're most certainly welcome

i get it, it's toughest looking from the inside out.

You see your life a certain way and breaking the norm seems unlikely. Or at least now you are torn and need to heal a bit further.

Change, it's never an easy thing (but I guarantee the only key that will open it all and put it in place is time)

Being an optimist indeed helps subside sadness, yet on certain days it doesn't feel as if it's enough.

Everything must be done on your own accord. When you choose to let go, the healing can truly begin.

Honestly, forgetting ex's is tough on different levels just because as much as they formed happiness chances are they could have failed and left scars.

Just remember no matter your age (love is never impossible) give your heart and mind a breather.
(I hope 🍀 you find that special someone eventually)

@FrosinStjarna I love this. I would love that. I. Kind of scared though, incase I pick the wrong one again and they have to witness it. I suppose I could date until Im sure and before bringing him around. I just want to do right for them

You sound like someone I know well, @Justgirl. It worked out for her. You've learned a lot. No need to be scared. Just never settle.

@FrosinStjarna Thank you. I will definitely try not to

@Beatbox34 thats true. You are way younger than I am, so you will have good luck

@Justgirl I mean I'd like to believe that but people judge me on the basis of how I look or better the color of my skin matters. So I lost hope.

@Justgirl trying. it’s hard.

@JustGoneNow keep going and reach out if you ever need to talk. I know life can be painful at times

for real

@dirge i like that

@JupiterDreams makes sense

@Catzgano hopefully never again

@SW-User youre funny

@Justgirl you’re..a blank profile 😐 im afraid to react to your compliment

@SW-User oh, why is that?

@DrWatson Thank you for sharing that with me. Im Happy fir your friend

@bijouxbroussard it feels old

@Justgirl In the grand scheme of things, you’ll find that it isn’t. People reinvent themselves and begin their “second acts” much later in life than that.