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I Have a Crush On a Coworker

I have a co worker who I think has a crush on me, and I’ve started to like him too. He seems to be as shy as I am for the most part, but two days ago I think he was flirting with me. Most of our Interactions have been on our staff bus, where we both smile at each other shyly from a distance, and don’t end up talking, then we go our separate ways as we work in different buildings. Then, there was one day a couple of weeks ago where our paths crossed and he started talking to me. It was just small talk, and I could see that he was trying to look at my name on my security pass, then at the end he said “see you later darling”. A few days ago he was working in my building for a few hours, and I made an excuse to go over to where he was working, by going getting a drink of water. I said hello to him and he smiled back, and I saw him watching me as I started to walk away. An hour later I found a reason to go over and work where he was. Again, we just had bits of small talk, and he was joking around, making me laugh. He called me sweetheart at one point. Later on I asked him to pass me something, which he did and said “.... only because it’s you. I’d do anything for you Rebecca. You ask me to jump, and I’d say how high?” I also saw him looking at me again after when I walked away. I think he’s trying to flirt with me and make me laugh, but he’s so shy, so I don’t know if it is flirting or him just being nice.
Royrogers · 61-69, M
All my fingers are crossed for you too
Just being social ... guys are really not good at flirting ... and quiet busy guys are the worst.

You have already put more thinking into it ... than he likely could.

Just let the connection evolve ... it might well all work out.
lasergraph · 70-79, M
Looks very much like flirting. You should ask. If you never ask the question, the answer is always mo.
nowic2 · 61-69, M
Definitely flirting. I'll do anything for you is more than just a hint. Sounds like you may be the one that needs to call the shots. Don't let the opportunity slide!
nowic2 · 61-69, M
@RebeccaJP yes, I understand that. It sounds to me that he is even less confident than you. I'll do anything for you.... Is a clear sign he's really interested. I know I'm not there to see or hear but what you say tells me he is very interested. Take that first step. What do you have to lose. He wants you to because he is not game. He will fall over himself to give you his number. Once he does make sure you phone him soon after. He'll be waiting. All the best.
RebeccaJP · 36-40, F
@nowic2 Thanks for the advice! I think you’re right. Because of where we work it’d probably be easier for me to write down my number next time he’s in my building and give it to him. We’re not supposed to have our phones out.
nowic2 · 61-69, M
@RebeccaJP I get that. I hope he does not lack the confidence to call you. I hope that between the two of you that you can make a connection soon. Hopefully it will be fantastic for both of you.
nowic2 · 61-69, M
Hey, I'm curious. How did this go?
RebeccaJP · 36-40, F
@nowic2 I saw him today, and we chatted quite a bit, and he was flirty again, but other people were with us so I didn’t get the opportunity to give him my number. He’s working tomorrow too on a similar shift to me, so I’ll probably see him a few times again. When I get the opportunity I’m going to give him my number.
nowic2 · 61-69, M
@RebeccaJP cool, great to see it's simmering between the two of you. I hope it goes a lot further & turns into a long term relationship. All the best. 🙂 Thanks for the update.
RebeccaJP · 36-40, F
@nowic2 I’ve given him my number now!! I’m going to be on 3 days off from tomorrow so hopefully he’ll text me!
olderguy2016 · 70-79, M
I think flirting
Yaz69 · 36-40, M
Lucky co-worker.

 
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