I Got Crushed By My Crush

I'm having some serious jealousy issues..

I really liked a guy at work
Tried to hang out with him but he never got the hint, even though I was direct

He says he didnt realise I was interested and just brushes it off

I felt hurt but decided I just wasn't his type

Now he's going on dates with another girl at work and won't shut up about her

I was direct and said I want him to be happy but I don't want to hear about it

Let's see if he stops talking to me all together I guess

Feelings suck.

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lakergoy · 36-40, M

Ok. yeah it does, but I'm guessing you're all your age there... If so don't laugh too hard when it's over between them... And don't go back unless he shows you... You might actually have to ask for that but don't bring it up unless he comes back and apologizes(?)

Headachey · 31-35, F

@lakergoy
He's 10 years older than me
She's a year younger.

He said he has chemistry with her and made up his mind when he met me (and when he meets anyone) if he would date or not

I feel like he just didn't want to say he wasn't interested haha

I enjoy our friendship but don't feel like having his relationship shoved in my face so often when he rejected me hahah

I hope i do get over it and that I'm just being emotional but I felt the need to vent so signed myself up to do just That!

lakergoy · 36-40, M

May you have some happiness

Tukudo · 41-45, M

You have many choices...just move on🙂 @Headachey

lakergoy · 36-40, M

@Tukudo amen

Headachey · 31-35, F

@Tukudo in time.

Tukudo · 41-45, M

Okay @Headachey