hmmm yeah its good to be afraid of some things 😒

No, don't do it. It will end up making you more sad. It's not worth it.

Cold turkey. No contact or you will not be able to move on. You’ll just continue to be emotionally/mentally tortured by this woman. I’m telling you, don’t allow it. It would be taking a significant step backwards in recovering from the breakup. The woman is bad news. And the sooner you pay her off in full the better.

Still dealing with that sociopath??

Just pay her and be done. Don't even need to pay her. She already made you pay so many times.

It's like stabbing you in the heart, then asking you to clean the knife