Have you ever gone through a friend breakup?
Sometimes they’re even worse than romantic breakups. How did you get through It?
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Cinderella1day · 26-30, F
I look at it as growth. I just ended a 17 year friendship this past Christmas. It was over something absolutely stupid. I looked back on the friendship and felt it was holding me back from my true potential. I don’t want to be around people who make excuses for things that they feel they can’t achieve in life. Who rather make excuse in life then figure out how to adapt; It's pathetic. I deserved better people around me. That made me delete Almost 300 contracts out my phone. I have 30 numbers left 🤣.
It’s also a chance to improve yourself. I looked at myself. Honestly, I think sometimes I place my friendships over my love relationships and it’s not always a good thing. Like I’m always there for them. I think I have to work on boundaries. Picking better people.
So if the relationship ends for good don’t look at it as a negative thing. Use this time to look at the whole picture.
It’s also a chance to improve yourself. I looked at myself. Honestly, I think sometimes I place my friendships over my love relationships and it’s not always a good thing. Like I’m always there for them. I think I have to work on boundaries. Picking better people.
So if the relationship ends for good don’t look at it as a negative thing. Use this time to look at the whole picture.
Sojournersoul · M
@Cinderella1day 300??? Lol
Cinderella1day · 26-30, F
@Sojournersoul yes coworkers, church, neighbors friends, high school, college, university. It adds up. Facebook is enough I can talk to them on there if need be.