How did you come to the decision to break up with your ex? [I Hate Break Ups]

When I went to a friends wedding abroad and he gave a speech where he mentioned that she had been by his side in good and bad times. I instantly realized that I did not have that. In my relationship, if my good times did not include her or were because of her (having caught amazing waves, a job promotion) I had to play them down or else she would get insecure and say that I was never that happy in relation with anything to do with her.

That stuck with me, I flew back the next day and we broke up.