Does Love really come slow and ever go that fast? [I Dealing With Breakups]

If something special ended is it better to never forget that person and always stay in their lives, you know just keep their memories and photos and don’t change status or anything, let other people think that you still talk?
Or is better to completely let that person go and delete everything, change all status and updates and throw out old memories and not see or speak to them again?
I don’t agree with a rebound but is that the most logic option for a woman who doesn’t let go of love because it’s that hard to find easy?
And promiscuous? Is that healthy for a woman to become following a long term thing?

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YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F

Depends on the people and their situations. I have tried staying in the person’s life. While I did that, I never truly got over them. They left my life on their own terms as far as I could tell because they have some difficult challenges in their life they can’t seem to manage, part of the reason we broke up. I also understand how hard it must be for them so I don’t blame them entirely. But I realized there’s only so many times one can forgive. Sometimes as much as we want someone to stay, it’s better for them to go.

It’s sad and hard to let someone go. Time will tell what is right.

I think I will always care about them but they are not meant to be in my life atm.

That’s sometimes how things go.

I think you should genuinely ask yourself if you still have feelings for this person or just see them as a friend. Are you both in a good place to be friends and is it positive?

I don’t suggest befriending the person too soon because of your feelings or staying friends in a situation that is negative. I had to learn from my feelings. It hurts. But sometimes we have to let them go.