I Am Going Through a Break-up

i just went through a break up we were together for 9 and a half months he ignores me now i highly doubt we will ever get back together he meant a lot to me not sure what to do now

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imlaughing · M

dont listen to the guy that says you need rebounds..what you need to do is keep busy and let time heal all....it is much better when you keep yourself busy and find things to do instead of just sitting there and longing for that person

luna1994 · 26-30, F

@imlaughing i have i am doing internship now

imlaughing · M

@luna1994 good! when you're off too, just stay busy...time will heal all!

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

focus on his annoying habits and be happy that you won’t have to put up with them any more. that’s what i used to do. well.... till i broke up with someone who didn’t have any bad habits. that was hard....

SW-User

Rebounds won't do you any good, tried that and just screwed me up more after the breakup.Learn to live without him is all I can say, learn to live for you.Keep busy, avoid overthinking and cry it out if you need to.The best thing you can do is let it out and avoid bitterness.

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SW-User

@luna1994 You might just be numb. :/
Either way, keeping busy is good for you, give yourself time.

luna1994 · 26-30, F

@SW-User i don;t feel anything anymore

SW-User

@luna1994 I get that.It gets better with time.First week is worst, second week is usually slow, and sometimes you will feel that way off and on.

SW-User

Try spending time with friends go out for food or coffee shopping etc just things to keep your mind busy.

luna1994 · 26-30, F

@SW-User i have been busy with internship so that has helped

SW-User

@luna1994 thats good try to resist any urges to message/call him.

luna1994 · 26-30, F

@SW-User yeah he is blocked

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

The same thing we do every night, Pinky. Try. and. get. laid.

That's what you need. A good rebound. Rebounds always help.

luna1994 · 26-30, F

@Tatsumi i wish but not sure who be interested in me

sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M

I think they're the hardest thing in the world. Lots of time and distance, I think will help. Gray's book on recovering from a broken relationship is good.

OKWTF2 · 51-55, M

Sorry, no easy fix and always difficult. Just takes time.

luna1994 · 26-30, F

@OKWTF2 the pain has gone away for most part idk if i am really looking i don't want to go through this again

Honeylove · 46-50, F

Focus on the yourself and take care.

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