I Hate Breaking Up With People

So I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. I knew in my heart (turned out I was wrong) that she was super honest, super trustworthy and my best friend.

I think I haven't seen her in 3 weeks almost and I keep flip flopping from feeling okay then feeling depressed and then feeling angry and then feeling vengeful... its really really horrible.

(in case you haven't seen my story - she went for a holiday to Malaysia and accidentally snapchatted me her getting married in Fiji to a complete stranger (arranged marriage), first I knew we were broken up was that snap lol)

Now I keep seeing girls that look like her and I want to snuggle / sleep with them, I probably could and kinda got interested in a girl at work the other day that kinda liked me but I'm not attracted to her really, I still feel like being with her to take away the pain for a little while.

Bad or good idea?

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TenderHeart · 46-50, F

Bad idea! Reminds me of a quote, "Never make a permanent decision based on a temporary feeling." It hurts and it will hurt for a while, but time will heal it. It just means you are meant to be with someone else....and that had to end for you to find her :) (that's what I'm telling myself now too LOL) ((hugs))

Zygote404 · 51-55, M

@TenderHeart Yeah I got over the feeling, still comes back every now and then. Funny you got the words but not the actions and I got the actions but not the words, she never said she loved me or anything but she'd come see me everyday no matter where I was. We both got the disappointment but hey you're right. Thank you and wish you all the best.

DiamondPrincess89 · 31-35, F

Bad idea, and sorry about the unexpected breakup. You need to give yourself enough time to heal and bounce back.

PoetryNEmotion · F

You would return to someone so despicable and so hurtful? What is wrong with you? She married someone else for Christsake. Move on.

Zygote404 · 51-55, M

@PoetryNEmotion Nah I wouldn't go back with her lol, doesn't stop it hurting, its not a conscious choice, its just there like a big black cloud every day.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@Zygote404 Of course it will hurt. You thought she loved you. You trusted her. It will take time to move on.

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

Nice girly flick plot you got going there.

Zygote404 · 51-55, M

@sighmeupforthat lol you don't believe me? :)

Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F

ugh how terrible to be so betrayed.

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