I Want to Break Up With My Bf

I feel like my relationship isn't right for me maybe, yet I feel so selfish feeling this way. He does so much for me, yet I'm not attracted to him much anymore nor am I feeling it. Yet it's hard when your only reason is that you don't find him attractive, but love him like a bff. I'm realizing it since I had to leave him for the summer that I might not feel the same way as I once did, since I don't miss him. It makes me feel terrible. I live with him and I don't want to hurt him. I just don't know what I want in life now.

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Vampireloveless · 26-30, F

Yeah, I get you, I felt like someday I would be doing that, but I wanted my first relationship to be comitted, just didn't think it would be a 3+ year one were I am not torn between findout out what's out there and staying, because I really care about him.