I would avoid this ex.... 6 years together, and all this behavoir on his part? pls take my advice and try to move on and you will do fine in time...It will be a slow process KeKenae. Time usually heals most wounds they say!

Disappear from his life. End or minimize communication. He should not be close enough in your life to know about your new friend. If you really think you need to stay in touch, I'd suggest a Christmas card once a year.

Ah that sounds like a certain someone who has a mental illness which destroys their relationships with others but I can't talk about it on the internet because people alike them are such good manipulators, they convince their friends they are the ultimate victim to be protected and fought for at any cost against anyone. So I would get a lot of shit like how it happened to my other account for simply linking a website with a THERAPIST's article for those hurt to recover and move on.