44 [M4F] Cologne, DE
I am in my early 40s, single, and live without children in a quiet town near Cologne, Germany. My life is characterized by stability, mindfulness, and a deep longing for a special kind of connection—a relationship in which closeness, devotion, and mutual care not only have a place, but occupy a significant space.
For many years, I have carried within me the desire to share my life with a woman who has similar ideas about partnership as I do – intense, loving, closely intertwined physically and emotionally, with a focus on closeness, care, and physical connection that goes far beyond the usual. I am deliberately only addressing women who have a deep need for security, emotional depth, and a very special aspect of a relationship, which for me will not be a side issue, but a central element of our life together.
In my everyday life, I am very busy professionally and at the same time very fulfilled. My job leaves me little room for flexibility in geographical terms – so unfortunately I cannot move. This means that you should be prepared to come to Germany if we find that we are on the same wavelength. I am aware that this is a big step. That is why I am not offering you a temporary adventure, but the prospect of a deeply rooted, stable, and warm-hearted partnership. I am looking for a woman between the ages of 34 and 56 who is emotionally mature, empathetic, and ready to embark on something truly special.
I am someone who loves to cook—for me, it's not just about preparing food, but an expression of love and attention. Evenings spent together in the kitchen, good conversation, soft music playing in the background—these are moments that enrich my life. I also love nature – whether it's walks in the woods, picnics in a meadow, or simply the feeling of walking barefoot on wet grass. I long for a woman who shares these simple, genuine things with me, who appreciates the little things in life and doesn't seek superficiality.
What can I offer you? A loyal, sincere, and devoted man who knows what he wants—and who isn't looking for quick encounters or noncommittal adventures. I want depth instead of randomness, warmth instead of games. I long for a woman who understands that true intimacy takes time, care, and attention—and that it grows above all through rituals, trust, and mutual devotion.
For me, the aspect that will shape this relationship is not a phase or a fantasy, but a way of life. It is important to me that you not only accept this part, but actively seek it out—with an open heart, a willingness to commit, and an inner desire to find fulfillment in this unique bond between two people.
If this appeals to you, if you feel that you carry a similarly deep longing within you, then I look forward to hearing from you. Tell me about yourself, your desires, your dreams—and perhaps something will begin here that will fulfill us both in ways we could only imagine before.
For many years, I have carried within me the desire to share my life with a woman who has similar ideas about partnership as I do – intense, loving, closely intertwined physically and emotionally, with a focus on closeness, care, and physical connection that goes far beyond the usual. I am deliberately only addressing women who have a deep need for security, emotional depth, and a very special aspect of a relationship, which for me will not be a side issue, but a central element of our life together.
In my everyday life, I am very busy professionally and at the same time very fulfilled. My job leaves me little room for flexibility in geographical terms – so unfortunately I cannot move. This means that you should be prepared to come to Germany if we find that we are on the same wavelength. I am aware that this is a big step. That is why I am not offering you a temporary adventure, but the prospect of a deeply rooted, stable, and warm-hearted partnership. I am looking for a woman between the ages of 34 and 56 who is emotionally mature, empathetic, and ready to embark on something truly special.
I am someone who loves to cook—for me, it's not just about preparing food, but an expression of love and attention. Evenings spent together in the kitchen, good conversation, soft music playing in the background—these are moments that enrich my life. I also love nature – whether it's walks in the woods, picnics in a meadow, or simply the feeling of walking barefoot on wet grass. I long for a woman who shares these simple, genuine things with me, who appreciates the little things in life and doesn't seek superficiality.
What can I offer you? A loyal, sincere, and devoted man who knows what he wants—and who isn't looking for quick encounters or noncommittal adventures. I want depth instead of randomness, warmth instead of games. I long for a woman who understands that true intimacy takes time, care, and attention—and that it grows above all through rituals, trust, and mutual devotion.
For me, the aspect that will shape this relationship is not a phase or a fantasy, but a way of life. It is important to me that you not only accept this part, but actively seek it out—with an open heart, a willingness to commit, and an inner desire to find fulfillment in this unique bond between two people.
If this appeals to you, if you feel that you carry a similarly deep longing within you, then I look forward to hearing from you. Tell me about yourself, your desires, your dreams—and perhaps something will begin here that will fulfill us both in ways we could only imagine before.
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