Recently started first big age gap relationship
I've been seeing a girl with an 18 year gap, she's 22 and I'm 40. We've been seeing each other for 4 months now and things are really going great. We see each other several days a week every week that we can (which is most!).
While we are both aware that the gap is quite large, particularly since she is relatively young, I do worry if eventually things will go bad because of the gap. Obviously we are in different stages of our lives, and while we can relate in so much, there are something that are just harder to relate.
She's also one of the few people I've ever met that matches my level of kink, which while it involves many many kinks, some are in the more degrading/humiliation area and while we both love it, I worry that eventually she may feel used, even though its completely consensual and she loves it perhaps even more than me, if that's possible 😅
I'd love to hear from people in a similar relationship, or who have come out of one to hear, how successful it was, or where it went wrong if it wasn't?
Any younger women who then realised it was a mistake and feel like they missed out on more normal aged relationships? Or older men who feel they missed out on having someone with more life experience?
While we are both aware that the gap is quite large, particularly since she is relatively young, I do worry if eventually things will go bad because of the gap. Obviously we are in different stages of our lives, and while we can relate in so much, there are something that are just harder to relate.
She's also one of the few people I've ever met that matches my level of kink, which while it involves many many kinks, some are in the more degrading/humiliation area and while we both love it, I worry that eventually she may feel used, even though its completely consensual and she loves it perhaps even more than me, if that's possible 😅
I'd love to hear from people in a similar relationship, or who have come out of one to hear, how successful it was, or where it went wrong if it wasn't?
Any younger women who then realised it was a mistake and feel like they missed out on more normal aged relationships? Or older men who feel they missed out on having someone with more life experience?
36-40, MNew
