I Have Been In An Abusive Relationship
It doesn't matter how long you have been broken up, because once you have been in an abusive relationship for long enough... It will haunt you forever! He could jump right into another relationship and it could be great! Chances are, she will be just like you, and he will give HER the life YOU were supposed to have! BUT YOU CAN'T! Seeing him happy, with someone else makes your loneliness, even more devastating! But there is nothing you can do about it! Even if you DO find someone else, they won't be any different than he was. And the sooner you jump into a relationship with someone else, the longer it is going to take for you to figure it out.
You need to accept the fact that you Wil remain broken, until you can stand on your own comfortably. Respect yourself enough to know that the pain you feel, IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED! The same hammer that shatters glass, forges steel... You have a choice, you can choose to be glass and shatter, or feel the pain as you beat yourself, with skill and precision, carefully molding yourself into perfection. Learn all you can, seek out all the support you can find... You have made it this far, and you're still in one piece, you are a lot stronger than you think!
You need to accept the fact that you Wil remain broken, until you can stand on your own comfortably. Respect yourself enough to know that the pain you feel, IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED! The same hammer that shatters glass, forges steel... You have a choice, you can choose to be glass and shatter, or feel the pain as you beat yourself, with skill and precision, carefully molding yourself into perfection. Learn all you can, seek out all the support you can find... You have made it this far, and you're still in one piece, you are a lot stronger than you think!
46-50, F
