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I got another good one to really rub salt in...
Hating on women who set up a Go Fund Me to ask for help to get on their feet after they leave domestic abuse.
All weekend, I've read nothing but "Don't have children if you can't afford them" and "Get a job, you lazy scrounger".
These are the same people who will say "Just leave your abuser if it's that bad, then".
On the whole, it highlights why I feel paralysed in my environment because I can't get out without help... and asking for help means becoming a "scrounger". I'd rather go homeless on the streets before I'm labelled as a "scrounger" because of the abuse I have endured for 21 years.
Hating on women who set up a Go Fund Me to ask for help to get on their feet after they leave domestic abuse.
All weekend, I've read nothing but "Don't have children if you can't afford them" and "Get a job, you lazy scrounger".
These are the same people who will say "Just leave your abuser if it's that bad, then".
On the whole, it highlights why I feel paralysed in my environment because I can't get out without help... and asking for help means becoming a "scrounger". I'd rather go homeless on the streets before I'm labelled as a "scrounger" because of the abuse I have endured for 21 years.
Kenworth4954 · 56-60, M
@HootyTheNightOwl take the label my dear. It's far better than going homeless.