Is abuse a choice

Is domestic abuse a choice

Can a personality disorder or mental illness do it or is that a separate issue

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Abuse should be viewed from the victim's perspective. It doesn't matter why the abuser abuses or what's going on in their mind. What's important is the welfare of the victim and how they feel.

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Richard65 Yep. People will try and justify it in the name of "mental illness". Whatever the reason may be - walk away!!

Monalisaa1986 · 36-40, F

@solitaire well depends if that victim chooses homelessness than a roof over their heads