I need clarification on this please .

Do you know say if someone did you wrong in a (relationship, friendship ) , tell u lies , or have being in an abusive manner .
Would u ever feel or have the same( relationship friendship )as it was before like meeting for the 1st time .
I know you have to forgive but some people uses that as a weakness and do the same thing or behaviour again .
Like they'd take u as a fool or a softy .
What do u think ?

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nonsensiclesnail · F

Forgiving someone does not give them permission to keep hurting you.
Boundaries should not be ignored or taken lightly by people who care about you.

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@nonsensiclesnail thats what got me .
Its like they have no boundaries, so i stepped away from the person and was friends a good while with the person .
Its like if i told the person i was happy he,'d attack me ,very possessive and controlling . I got freaked out from it , cause the same person used to be eyeing me up in the car and im not gay , and yet the person at the same time was anti gay and religious.
Very confused the person is .
I have nothing against gay people .
I have friends gay and they don't carry on that way .

nonsensiclesnail · F

@riseofthemachine He sounds like a troubled person who's fighting battles in his own mind. might be best to stay away from that one.

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@nonsensiclesnail you said it " fighting battles in his own mind " .
Don't take me up wrong , but aren't we all fighting battles , isn't that the whole idea of temptations and believing theres a life after death if u believe in that view

nonsensiclesnail · F

@riseofthemachine Not everyones battles in their minds are the same. But yes, we all have something to struggle with.

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@nonsensiclesnail thank you so much . Everyone's aren't the same .
You just re assured me cause when you have battles going on , you be thinking your the only one that has them 🤗🤗🤗.
Thank you 🤗🤗🤗

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@nonsensiclesnail not trying to frighten u but do u know the battles that goes on , do u know what the main aim is if you listen to them where u end up if u give into them is " isolation from others , isolation from God , and then when that happens , suicidal thoughts

nonsensiclesnail · F

@riseofthemachine You are not frightening me at all. I've been in that spot too many times to reasonably count. Im quite comfortable with the topic. Anything to isolate you from God is the goal. It's not done only through depression, but through pleasures. through anything that works, really.

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@nonsensiclesnail i agree with you 100% 😊😊😊