Tip for the fellas

@SirNedKelly I'm not talking about being someone's fault
I'm just saying that nobody would like to be told to calm down when they're upset.
I really don't believe men would like it either .
if you were upset by something she had done and you tried to talk to her about it but she just dismisses you and acts like it's not important I think a man would rightfully be upset by that.

@Sapio I think if a woman's intimidated sometimes they come out fighting if that makes sense about the standing up?

Think you have to value each other's opinion and then it will be more acceptable.

If a woman already thinks she knows it all ,I know that's a joke ,but some women really do think that everything they think is correct and everything a man thinks is wrong, I'm not sure you're going to do much to change it you have to decide if you can live with it at that point or if both parties are willing to seek out counseling.

@HikingMan oh, of course, nobody's perfect.
But ,I don't believe a man would take what some women are expected to take ,by some males ,any better it just looks different.
Men call it nagging when a woman tells them what to do and women call it lecturing ,but it amounts to the same thing really.
Communication is always key and having a willingness to listen to the other person's point of view.
We also have to realize we're not always going to have to agree with each other or understand each other, but we should be respectful and not dismissive.
Women are not always right and men are not always wrong ,but unless you have the conversations and the willingness, both sides, to not be defensive and to really listen things don't get resolved.
I do agree that men are wired different than women but sometimes men use it as an excuse for some appalling behavior.
I can see that women often want to soften the blow and don't realize men are more direct communicators.
It really comes down to honesty as well -what do you want from the relationship ?what will you tolerate?
Women are sometimes afraid to let that be known for fear of losing the relationship.
The sad thing is I think some guys are wanting to know and it's never discussed because of the fear and they lose a relationship anyway.
I don't know if this is true or not ,but I believe men if they feel like they cannot please a woman no matter what they do this causes them to want to end a relationship.

@bowman81 it's always good to take precautions