I like people who remember small details. If he checks in for no reason, I would feel delighted but it shouldn't be because he is insecure, it should be because he is infatuated with me. If he makes time for me I would feel cherished. But I wouldn't anticipate something like that because I'm insecure in myself and I am not sure if I can fulfill his expectations in terms of making time for each other. Physical affection is something I think is just the very backbone of a relationship. I would feel highly appreciated if he didn't disregard my important emotions related to certain events. My expectation are low but precise.

E) someone who not only checks in just because but actively sticks around during the bad times. Then you know they are truly a friend.

I would say all of those answers, but if I had to choose one, I'd say B makes it fundamental in any healthy relationship.

B, but especially C. Without C, everything else is pointless and fake.

For me, A to D are all important. The little details, checking in, making time, and physical affection all matter. feeling understood and genuinely cared for.

Someone who will rob banks with me

Those are all important. The trick is knowing which one is most important on that day or in that moment.

Just being considerate in general.. that’s caring

A. Whenever someone recalls some small thing I did or said years ago that had a positive impact on their lives, I feel appreciated. I did something that mattered for that person.

all of the above work with me... and mutually - i would try to offer them back (i admit, i am not always very good at that)...

Just being told I'm appreciated.