In most cases, the modern 'relationship' these days is based on "what have YOU done for ME...

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In most cases, the modern 'relationship' these days is based on "what have YOU done for ME lately?" True or False? What say you?

Seems to me that once one person stops bending over backwards for the other who gives nothing, the other who gives nothing will start complaining and seeking someone else.

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CassandraSissy · 26-30, T

Give and take, sweetie. Sometimes I give more, sometimes my fiancé does.

After my op he was a complete darling. When he gets man flu I try to be sympathetic to his needs.

😘

OlderSometimesWiser · F Best Comment

That hasn’t been my experience, perhaps because I make sure that “gives nothing” is shown the door fairly quickly. Just don’t have time for that nonsense.

Horace · M

@OlderSometimesWiser Very wise.

cherny

I'm all for reciprocating ..that's a two way street

Horace · M

@cherny Unfortunately what WE are for and reality are often worlds apart. Especially these days.

Ohplease47 · F

Relating, like interviewing, implies equal forces with which to relate...or view...

So if its very uneven its not relating, or viewing at all.

Mamapolo2016 · F

Fishing in the wrong waters, sometimes all you get are sharks.

Horace · M

@Mamapolo2016 yep

kittee

not in europe

Jessmari · 46-50, T

I think there are a whole lot of people that will settle for anything that helps them no long feel alone. This almost always backfires as a basis for a relationship because they forego any reasonable vetting process in a potential partner.

Selah ·

Everyone gets to chose the dynamic that works for them. Why be with someone who gives nothing?

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