Without saying saying things like sensitive, or confident, or whatever

I just read a post that asks

Ladies..what qualities are you looking for in a man.

Yeah exactly.

I thought ... Hmm these might be a bit predictable here. Especially after the 50/60 is half rule.

I thought... there's surely going to be a couple of confident that's sensitive and strong enough to wrestle a bear but gentle enough to cuddle a baby panda.

Which I think it is great. You never know when you're going to come across a pissed off bear or a lost baby panda. So yeah I get that.

Then I thought ...what about the other 99.99 percent of the time . When real life happens and you don't feel like reading poetry.

What do you really want from your significant other if you take away the niceties.

These are three of mine

She has to be willing to work..I don't care if she works outside or at home but she has to try in her own way and accrding to her capabilities to work with me for what we want

She has to be loving. Wherever we go I want them to know she's my wife and I'm going to hug and kiss and i might slap her ass and she has to be cool with it

She can't be a cu** if I mess up , just tell me I messed up and I'll fix it, ill do amtthing she wants me to do to make her happy but fon't give me the silent treatment.

What do you REALLY want from your significant other

Three real things