Orysia and me!
There are so many changes possible when you finally step away and broaden your horizons. University is the perfect place to meet your lesbian love. Action is key. Join your university's LGBTQ+ society, hang out at queer-friendly campus coffee spots, and try dating apps like Hinge or HER.
Be bold, ask her out on casual study dates, and always clearly state your romantic intentions.
Top Ways to Find Your Love at UniLGBTQ+ Societies:
Check your Student Union’s website for your university's LGBT+ or Pride society. They host movie nights, socials, and safe-space events.
Dating Apps:
Set the filters on your dating apps to your specific campus location. Apps like HER are built exclusively for queer women.
Campus Events:
Attend queer-focused panels, art shows, or volunteer at local charity events.
Class Connections:
Look for the girl who gives you "gay eye contact". Spark a conversation about class topics and suggest grabbing a coffee to study together.
Taking the Leap
Be Clear: If you want a date, use the word "date". This stops the confusion of "are we friends or are we flirting?"
Make the First Move:
Waiting for the other person to act can waste time. Take a deep breath and share a compliment about her style or vibe.
For tips on how to build up the confidence to approach a potential love interest:
Take Your Time: Don't rush. Spend time getting to know her as a person.
Define the Relationship: There are no exact rules for this. Once you have both spent a lot of time together, simply have a chat to see if you both want to make it official.
Such advice is available and appreciated, but it can mean you both get some splash back from the boys who might be interested in you.
Be bold, ask her out on casual study dates, and always clearly state your romantic intentions.
Top Ways to Find Your Love at UniLGBTQ+ Societies:
Check your Student Union’s website for your university's LGBT+ or Pride society. They host movie nights, socials, and safe-space events.
Dating Apps:
Set the filters on your dating apps to your specific campus location. Apps like HER are built exclusively for queer women.
Campus Events:
Attend queer-focused panels, art shows, or volunteer at local charity events.
Class Connections:
Look for the girl who gives you "gay eye contact". Spark a conversation about class topics and suggest grabbing a coffee to study together.
Taking the Leap
Be Clear: If you want a date, use the word "date". This stops the confusion of "are we friends or are we flirting?"
Make the First Move:
Waiting for the other person to act can waste time. Take a deep breath and share a compliment about her style or vibe.
For tips on how to build up the confidence to approach a potential love interest:
Take Your Time: Don't rush. Spend time getting to know her as a person.
Define the Relationship: There are no exact rules for this. Once you have both spent a lot of time together, simply have a chat to see if you both want to make it official.
Such advice is available and appreciated, but it can mean you both get some splash back from the boys who might be interested in you.
